Jon's Story

Giving people with Asperger’s Syndrome a new lease of life is an integral aspect of the Wessex Autistic Society’s drop-in group for adults.

Designed to provide a social outlet, the fortnightly group run by support workers focuses on developing confidence and independence, learning new skills, meeting new friends and sharing experiences.

Drop-in group member Jon Leavitt, 49, who has been attending the Yeovil group since it launched in April 2011, shares his experience of how the group has made a difference to his life.

“Since starting the group I would say my life definitely has more structure and meaning. I have a much wider circle of people in my life and I have support to call on if I need help. I still struggle with the everyday problems of having Asperger’s but the group gives me a better perspective on things.”

Individuals with Asperger’s Syndrome, which is a form of autism, experience problems with social interaction that can impact on their ability to form relationships, maintain employment and communicate effectively. Structured support can really make a difference to their life, helping to maximise interpersonal and independent living skills and achieve full potential in adulthood.

Leisure and social activities such as skittles, crafts and board games as well as discussion and advice form the basis of the drop-in group; promoting independent living and communication skills along with mental and physical wellbeing.

Jon continues, “I live in Yeovil so it’s great to have a local group and such a good venue too. We have the use of the big function room at the RAOB Social Club and the use of the skittle alley. The activities that I enjoy most are chatting and laughing with everyone over a cup of tea. I enjoy getting to know people and hearing people’s stories and anecdotes and its fun playing skittles and sometimes getting zero points after 3 balls! The group and the support workers give me a safe space where I can just be. The group builds up a trust and we support each other.”

Before Jon received regular support he used to struggle to fit in and make friends but now he is able to be more positive about the future. “I used to spend my life trying to fit in and please people but I didn’t really understand the world or why I couldn’t maintain things. I had a lot of breakdowns before being assessed and diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome in April 2010.

"For me the diagnosis has been a positive turning point. I understand myself more and I can ask for the help and support I think I need. Attending the group has helped me to find confidence in myself and being with other people with Asperger’s gives me a sense of identity. I’m learning how to make new friends, how to relax and have fun and I’m building a social life for myself.”